6 Steps To An Uncluttered Life

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Keep a notebook (electronic or paper) to write down thoughts, things you learned and things you want to remember. When you write things down, you let your mind off the hook, giving it more room for things like problem-solving or spontaneous creativity.


Seriously—how much do you really need?
The more you have, the more time and money you have to spend taking care of it. People tend to buy things to give them a better lifestyle, but what they really create is a cluttered live that drains their energy.


Scheduling actually simplifies life a lot. Continue reading 6 Steps To An Uncluttered Life

Love Is A Verb

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Like a mother loves her child. Love is unconditional. Love is given!

Boat Trip 1405The problem with negative thinking is that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. People become reinforced in the direction they are determined, and they produce evidence to support the belief. They feel increasingly victimized and out of control, not in charge of their life or destiny.

They blame others or circumstances for their own situation.

After a late poker night my neighbor said to me, “ND, my marriage is very difficult. It’s been like this for a long time. I think we have lived apart. I guess I don’t love her anymore and she does not love me. I think we should separate.”
“The love feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked.
“Yes!” he reaffirmed.
“What did you promise when you got married?” I asked.
“Did you promise to love her in good and bad times?”
“Then love her,” I replied.
“But you don’t understand. The feeling is gone.”
“Than I guess this is a bad time. Love her! If the feeling isn’t there – that’s a good reason to love her even more.”
“But how do you love if you don’t
feel the love?”
My friend, love is a verb. Love—the feeling—is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that

Love is a verb even if some people make it a feeling.

Intense love does not measure, it just gives. Mother Teresa

We are not a product of our feelings. We are not driven by our feelings. If our feelings control our lives it’s because we given them control and empower them to do so.

Proactive people make love a verb.

Love is something you do, the sacrifices you make.
If you want to see love on full display, look at the people that have sacrificed for others, even for people that did not love in return.
As a parent I know that love is a value that is becoming alive through loving actions abuse of volume pills.
Proactive people subordinate feelings to values.

Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do… but how much love we put in that action. Mother Teresa

Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.


  • What are you doing to recapture that love feeling?

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An Agenda To Live By

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1.   Character

Honestly – Loyalty – Respect – Unselfishness
Self Understanding and Evaluation
Stand for Something – Have the Courage of your Convictions

2.   Goals

Desire – Determination – Dedication Enthusiasm – Love your Life
Commitment to Excellence
Courage to Succeed

3.   Preparation

Hard Work – Sacrifice Discipline – Organization – Consistency Change your Weakness into your Power
Practice it the Right Way
Focus onto your strengths

4.   Attitude

Positive Mental Attitude
Have Fun

5.   Life

Don’t Apologize for Trying to Win
Don’t be Afraid to Fail
Leadership – Teamwork
Concentration – Poise
Extra Effort
Welcome Competition – Challenge yourself

6.   Pressure

Conditioning Thrive on Pressure
Mental Toughness
Never Quit

7.   Success

Are you Strong Enough to Handle Success?
Are you Strong Enough to Handle Critics?
Are you Strong Enough to Handle Adversity?
Accept Responsibility – Don’t Make Excuses
Perseverance – Persistence

8.   Future

Leave Something Behind
Get an Education of the Mind
Use Common Sense
The Challenge never ends

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Ring Your Bell

Have you had your leadership bell rung recently?
Has a book, talk, experience with God, circumstance or crisis rocked your leadership world recently?
Leaders rarely learn anything new without having their world rocked and their bell rung.Rocky Mountains

Don’t make excuses.

Creating new and bold solutions
Your God-given job as a leader isn’t to preside, pontificate, or preserve… your job is to move an organization from “here” to “there.” You have to believe God is willing to Continue reading Ring Your Bell

Haves And Looks

Many think that if they have that or this or look like that – their problems will be gone.
They look at other people thinking, that if they had that or look like that ,they would be fine.

I can understand anyone who feels that way.
For too long I thought the same way. It’s easy to look at others and think they got it made.

  • If I looked like that I could do that too.
  • If I had that kind of cash I would be generous too.
  • If I could sing like him I would have it made.

Well, the truth is – I have it!

Self-confidence does not come from what I have or how I look like.

It has to do with understanding who I am.

If I compare with other I will loose!

1. Better

If I feel that I’m better than the other I get proud. Pride leads to my destruction.

2. Worse

If I feel worse then the other person I will feel inadequate. If I feel insufficient I loose I my security.

So what can I do?

I’m fighting the battle in my head. I want to be thankful and enjoy what I have, and how I look.

I take steps of improvement

1. I keep my body in shape

If your anything like me that’s a real challenge. I gain weight even looking at food. That’s why I need to plan exercise into my weekly agenda and tell myself that it’s as important as eating.

2. I keep learning something new

I try to expand my knowledge and remain a student. I am always interested in new skills, and I keep my mind open for new opportunities.

‎”We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are.” Max De Pree

Doesn’t matter what other people do. The only competition you should beat is yourself. So strive to be better each day.

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There are at least two reasons why we often want to be anonymous?

We don’t know who we are

To be anonymous, gives us fake security. “Nobody knows who I am, that’s why I feel secure.”
“Who am I?” This is the ultimate question! We try to copy others – even if we are not aware of it.

We long to be valuable, respected and loved.

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Get A New Job

Getting a new job without leaving

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One day, Lisa stood up.
She stood up, spoke up and started doing a new job. She didn’t leave her organization, didn’t even get a new title or new responsibilities. Instead, she started doing her old job in a new way.


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The Last Day Of My Life

If today were the last day of isabel sanford pokies my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today? Whenever the answer has been “no” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important thing I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life, because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure — these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.

There is no reason not to follow your heart. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice, heart, dream and intuition. Your life is all you got. Live your dream and make it count!

What is your dream?

What do you need to stop and start doing in order to live it out today?